Those don't seem like very logical rules. What if you don't love them until after? Or you love them, but it's in a different way? Or you're married to someone but you DON'T love them?
Then maybe doing it with someone you feel safe with is best. There are things I don't think I could do unless I really, really trusted the person.
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Then maybe doing it with someone you feel safe with is best. There are things I don't think I could do unless I really, really trusted the person.