[Oh dear, maybe this would've been better in person. But Jennifer is important, and Koby cares a lot about her, so he musters up his courage to get over his awkwardness (while also wondering how he became the One Who Has Sex in the friend group.]
It can be fun and nice, yes. When it's with someone who wants to make sure it's fun and nice for you. I can't speak to everyone here and say that they're all that way, but I've been very fortunate. I've met a lot of people who are wonderful and who know what they're doing, which helps.
I was always told it was something I'd need to do, whenever I got married off, or if I ended up working for a certain kind of noble. That it'd be painful at worst and boring at best. But that's not true.
I think maybe you were told some of the same lies I was, Jennifer. And I won't say that you're silly or wrong to be cautious, because if you're not ready, you don't need to be, but I can promise you: those were lies. They were all lies.
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It can be fun and nice, yes. When it's with someone who wants to make sure it's fun and nice for you. I can't speak to everyone here and say that they're all that way, but
I've been very fortunate. I've met a lot of people who are wonderful and who know what they're doing, which helps.
I was always told it was something I'd need to do, whenever I got married off, or if I ended up working for a certain kind of noble. That it'd be painful at worst and boring at best. But that's not true.
I think maybe you were told some of the same lies I was, Jennifer. And I won't say that you're silly or wrong to be cautious, because if you're not ready, you don't need to be, but I can promise you: those were lies. They were all lies.